
Leaving the City of Regret
I had not really planned on taking
a trip this time of year, and yet I found myself packing rather hurriedly. This
trip was going to be unpleasant and I knew in advance that no real good would
come of it. I'm talking about my annual "Guilt Trip."
I got tickets to
fly there on Wish I Had airlines. It was an extremely short flight. I got my
baggage, which I could not check. I chose to carry it myself all the way. It was
weighted down with a thousand memories of what might have been. No one greeted
me as I entered the terminal to the Regret City International Airport. I say
international because people from all over the world come to this dismal town.
As I checked into the Last Resort Hotel, I noticed that they would be
hosting the year's most important event, the Annual Pity Party. I wasn't going
to miss that great social occasion. Many of the towns leading citizens would be
there.
First, there would be the Done family, you know, Should Have,
Would Have and Could Have. Then came the I Had family. You probably know ol'
Wish and his clan. Of course, the Opportunities would be present, Missed and
Lost. The biggest family would be the Yesterday's. There are far too many of
them to count, but each one would have a very sad story to share.
Then
Shattered Dreams would surely make and appearance. And It's Their Fault would
regale us with stories (excuses) about how things had failed in his life, and
each story would be loudly applauded by Don't Blame Me and I Couldn't Help It.
Well, to make a long story short, I went to this depressing party
knowing that there would be no real benefit in doing so. And, as usual, I became
very depressed. But as I thought about all of the stories of failures brought
back from the past, it occurred to me that all of this trip and subsequent "pity
party" could be cancelled by ME! I started to truly realize that I did not have
to be there. I didn't have to be depressed. One thing kept going through my
mind, I CAN'T CHANGE YESTERDAY, BUT I DO HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE TODAY A
WONDERFUL DAY. I can be happy, joyous, fulfilled, encouraged, as well as
encouraging. Knowing this, I left the City of Regret immediately and left no
forwarding address. Am I sorry for mistakes I've made in the past? YES! But
there is no physical way to undo them.
So, if you're planning a trip
back to the City of Regret, please cancel all your reservations now. Instead,
take a trip to a place called, Starting Again. I liked it so much that I have
now taken up permanent residence there. My neighbors, the I Forgive Myselfs and
the New Starts are so very helpful. By the way, you don't have to carry around
heavy baggage, because the load is lifted from your shoulders upon arrival. God
bless you in finding this great town. If you can find it -- it's in your own
heart -- please look me up. I live on I Can Do It street.
~ Author unknown ~